My element colour

We're going to move house and my parents ask me what colour I want for my room. I didn't want something glaring, I wanted something nice and calm, so I chose "misty" or "chocolate". They said my element colour (from feng shui) is red, purple, orange etc. "I choose for you lah!" my mother said. I got fed-up. What is the point of them asking me when they already have a colour in mind? When have they actually considered my opinion? I have learnt that there is no need to suggest anything because there is no use.

I so want to move out and I'm waiting for the opportunity to.